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10 Ways To Stay Connected When A Partner Travels For Business

May 7, 2013

Traveling for business can be stressful for both members of a relationship, but with all of the technology available now, staying connected has never been easier. Here are some suggestions on how you can stay connected with your partner when they are traveling for business. 1. Know where your partner is. Create a shared calendar via Microsoft outlook or Google and keep your travel plans up to date. It’s reassuring to know where in the world your…

The Importance of Being A Good Roommate In A Romantic Relationship

April 30, 2013

Our relationships call for a variety of skills to stay connected and on track with our partners.  I believe that one aspect of a healthy relationship requires that we also be good roommates for our partners.  What does it require to be a good roommate to our romantic partners?  One important skill is to develop solid communication skills.  While communication is a very broad topic, more specifically what I mean is the need to set aside time…

How Trust Helps You Forgive

March 12, 2013

No one is perfect—especially within the context of a relationship. Whether it’s forgetting a birthday or picking a fight, we all make mistakes. But if you trust your partner, you’re more likely to forgive and forget, according a new study recently published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. Researchers from Northwestern University and Redeemer University College had participants fill out surveys about the levels of trust, commitment, satisfaction, and attachment in their current romantic relationships.…

Save Your Marriage in Twenty-One Minutes

February 18, 2013

Lasting relationships rarely improve through dramatic gestures alone, yet small and intentional habits often shape how couples experience connection over time. Recent psychological research suggests that structured reflection can help save your marriage when practiced for only a few minutes a year. It may change how conflict feels and how partners respond to one another. This approach does not promise perfection or quick fixes. However, it offers something more useful: perspective. When couples step back from emotional…

Couples Who Say “We” Are Better Able to Resolve Conflicts

February 18, 2013

A new study shows there’s no “I” in happy couples. Here’s how to speak the language of love. What’s the magic word? Turns out, it’s “we.” Couples who use “we” language are better able to resolve conflicts—and are happier in their relationships—than those who don’t, according to a new study from the University of California, Berkeley. Researchers analyzed conversations over disagreements between 154 middle-aged and older couples. They found that those who used pronouns such as “we,”…