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Being Distracted in a Digital World

October 6, 2019
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Danielle Bertini As I sit down to write this blog, my phone, laptop, and iPad all light up and simultaneously ding with notifications. It’s hard to imagine life before our world became dominated with smartphones and other devices that make us so accessible, but more importantly, so easily distracted. Although this constant fragmentation of our time and concentration has become the new normal, more and more experts are telling us that these interruptions might be eroding our…

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Tools and Techniques for Managing a Mental Health Crisis

October 5, 2019
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If you happened to stumble upon this blog post, there’s a strong chance that you are familiar with the mental health field to some capacity. Perhaps you have received your own therapeutic services in the past, or are currently curious about entering into a mental health service. You may also be in a position where you are in crisis or seeking mental health services for a loved one. One area in the mental health field that needs…

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The Connection Between Senses and Trauma

October 4, 2019
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Matthew Cuddeback, LCSW Have you ever experienced a moment that felt as though it came completely out of nowhere, in which you suddenly became anxious, sweaty, shaky? This can happen when you are at home, out with friends, etc. For example, let’s say you are at a crowded bar and all of the sudden you start to get anxious, sweaty, and are having a hard time breathing. In this scenario, let’s say you go to the hospital…

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When They Refuse to Apologize

October 3, 2019
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Matthew Cuddeback, LCSW We’ve all been there, someone has done something hurtful and you have been able to work through your emotions and process what happened and in order to feel as though it can be all wrapped up and everyone can move on, what you need next is an apology. Maybe you hint at the need for an apology, and they don’t pick up on what you are asking for. Maybe you ask for an apology…

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When Our Mind Gets the Best of Us: How to Re-Ground Yourself

September 30, 2019
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Let’s face it – no matter how helpful our coping skills, self-care, supports, and therapists can be, we are all be bound to have an emotionally or mentally overwhelming week (or month(s)!). We are human beings and life stressors, triggers, and transitions can all interfere with our balanced day-to-functioning. Sometimes, there is simply no avoiding or suppressing an emotional or mental breakdown. These breakdowns can look very different from person to person. For one, a breakdown may…

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4 Practical Ways to Cope with a Long Work Commute

September 28, 2019
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A long work commute drains energy quickly, so coping with it is an important part of protecting your emotional wellness. Long stretches in traffic reduce time for connection and relaxation, which adds tension to the start and end of your day. Many people share that their commute pulls them away from moments with friends, family, and personal downtime. Small adjustments create space for better focus and a calmer mindset. How Coping with a Long Work Commute Supports…

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How to Distance Yourself from Your Phone

September 28, 2019
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You can take meaningful steps to reduce the pull of your smartphone once you understand how easy it is for habits to form around constant checking. Many people explore how to distance themselves from their phone because they want more focus, more calm, and more time for the parts of life that feel fulfilling. Small changes help you create some breathing room as you build a healthier relationship with your device. When these habits feel natural, and…

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How to Distance Yourself from Your Phone: Part I

September 27, 2019
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By now, we all know that it’s better for our health and our relationships to limit the amount of time we spend glued to our smartphones. By being attuned to our screens instead of the world surrounding us, we’re missing out on connections with our loved ones and peaceful moments. I can’t count the number of times a client has made a disparaging remark about their relationship with their cell phone, noted the difficulty in staying focused…

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Procrastination… a Bad Habit or a Solvable Struggle?

September 23, 2019
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It’s 7pm on a weeknight. You’ve just gotten home from a long day at work and are absolutely exhausted. Unfortunately, you have a meeting in the morning you need to prepare for. Before starting to prepare you think to yourself “I should take my dog out for a walk”. When you get home from your walk you make dinner for your kids then start to get them ready for bed. While you’ve been productive with these tasks,…

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Toward a More Compassionate Environment

September 22, 2019
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Steven Topper, LCPC Most of us would agree that the world would be a far lovelier place with a little more compassion. And while many of us work to extend compassion toward our pets, families, and friends, so many struggle with self-compassion. In the Podcast “Psychologists Off The Clock,” Dr. Christopher Germer discussed the role of self-compassion and how to increase daily self-compassion. He asserts that self-compassion is a practice in moving toward acceptance, and that, “You…

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