Is It Time to Break-up With Your Therapist?

Amanda Ann Gregory, LCPC, EMDR Certified Therapist  Everyone breaks up with their therapist at some point. It’s rare to participate in therapy with the same therapist for your entire life. The decision to end the therapeutic relationship can be made by the client, the therapist, or both, and it is made for many different reasons. …

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Have Your Considered Trying Couples Therapy?

Steven Losardo, LMFT We devote our resources such as time, money, and talents to cultivate our careers. We learn, prepare, practice, learn in real-time, and repeat. Meanwhile, as personal lives overlap, and with no shortage of self-growth options, we similarly devote our resources to self-improvement. In the process, we overlook the importance of our most…

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Benefits of Structured Problem-Solving to Tackle Anxiety and Depression

Steven Losardo, LMFT The efficient relationship of holistic internal self and external interactions is essential to maintaining a healthy balance in life. Habits, routines, emotions, physical functioning, and thoughts intertwine our life situations. Further, even if we are all in the same situation, each will have a unique story as we relate to it. When…

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How To Not Be Codependent In An Intimate Relationship

Steven Losardo, LMFT Having an innate desire to care for those closest to us is part of what makes us human. However, when those needs become excessive and unhealthy, this can be a sign of codependency.  The term ‘codependency’ refers to emotional, mental, or physical reliance on another person.  Codependency often stems from unstable attachments…

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How Can I Make Peace with My Body?

Jessica Pontis, LCSW We all know that Chicago weather in the spring can be a roller coaster, some days it’s beautiful and sunny and the next day it’s snowing. While it may be inconsistent now, we can all recognize that warmer weather is just around the corner. While some look forward to the summer months,…

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How Can I Overcome Parentification As An Adult?

Amanda Ann Gregory, LCPC, EMDR Certified Therapy  Parentification is a term used to describe a role reversal that occurs between a parent and a child in which the child acts as the caretaker for their parent. Parentification typically occurs when parents struggle with attachment, trauma, mental illness, substance abuse, emotional immaturity, or a lack of…

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How to Return the Office After Working Remotely

Amanda Ann Gregory, LCPC, EMDR Certified  The time has come in when you need to return to the office. You might be returning due to expectations from your employer, a job change, or perhaps an awareness that it’s in your best interest. Regardless of your reasons, you might experience a potentially stressful transition. Therefore, it’s…

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How Do I Say “I’m Sorry?”

Amanda Ann Gregory, LCPC, EMDR Certified Now you’ve done it. You’ve made a mistake that negatively impacted someone, and it’s time to apologize. For example, perhaps you yelled obscenities at your partner when they failed to do the dishes. Now, your partner is hurt. You know that you shouldn’t have yelled and cursed, and you…

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Is DBT Right for Me?

Jessica Pontis, LCSW A modified version of cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, or DBT, was created in the late 1970s by Dr. Marsha Linehan for the treatment of borderline personality disorder. Over the years this treatment modality has been expanded to also treat depression, anxiety, eating disorders, suicidal ideation, and substance use disorders. DBT…

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What is Codependency? Part II

Meg Mulroy, LPC In part one of this short blog series, I defined and explained ways in which people form codependent relationships through caretaking, controlling, and self-abandonment. In part two, I’ll discuss characteristics indicative of codependent relationships. If you resonate with these problems, it does not mean you are bad, inferior, or broken. Most of…

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