What to Say (and Not Say) to Someone Who’s Grieving
Amanda Ann Gregory, LCPC, EMDR When someone in your life is grieving, you want to support them. Yet, you may not know what to say to them or you might be afraid of saying the wrong thing. Consider these tips when supporting your loved ones who are grieving. Be Curious. Does your love one want…
Read MoreWhat’s the Difference Between Having Empathy and Being an Empath?
By: Danielle Bertini, LPC Most people have heard of the word empathy, maybe even using it to describe themselves. Empathy is when you are in tune to other people’s feelings and life circumstances. For example, empathy might be when you give an appropriate, understanding response when someone loses their job, or when you show…
Read MoreWho Are You To Judge?
By Bridgette W. Gottwald, LPC, NCC “Do not judge, or you will be judged. For in the same way that you judge others, you will be judged, and with the same measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Matthew 7:1-2 Who are you to judge? I often say this to myself, other people,…
Read MoreWhat is Radical Acceptance, and How Can It Help Me?
Jessica Pontis, LCSW It feels like anxiety and uncertainty are at an all-time high, and that it feels more and more unreasonable to manage. After living in our current state for months, how can we maintain hope and see the proverbial light at the end of the tunnel? One thing that may be helpful…
Read MoreWhat Is Codependency and How Can I Work Through It?
Relationships can bring connection, warmth, and meaning. Yet when codependency becomes part of the dynamic, emotional strain and imbalance can quietly take over. At Symmetry Counseling, we offer counseling and therapy for individuals who feel consumed by someone else’s needs, moods, or approval. Codependency is more than being “clingy” or “needy.” This pattern often involves…
Read MoreHelpful Ways to Improve Efficiency and Productivity
Productivity and efficiency are things individuals strive for in both their work and home environments. It’s frequently thought that the more productive you are the more successful you’ll be. Or the more productive you are the more leisure time you’ll be able to have at the end of the day. It can be frustrating when…
Read MoreWhat Are Signs of Childhood Emotional Neglect?
Hannah Hopper, LPC, NCC “I don’t know why, but I often feel so empty and numb inside.” “I had a good childhood, so I don’t know why I can’t just be happier.” “I’m not sure who I am, what I like, or what I want.” Do any of these statements above hold true for you?…
Read MoreWhat Are Love Maps and Why Are They Important?
Kyle Lawell, Licensed Professional Counselor Your partner asks you to pick up some groceries on your way home from work: ice cream, paper towels, cereal, eggs, and flour. You go to the store, quickly breeze through the aisles and grab these groceries before making your way home. Upon putting the groceries away and settling down…
Read More7 Overlooked Forms of Domestic Abuse Beyond Physical and Sexual Abuse
An emotionally healthy connection grows through trust, respect, and shared responsibility. Domestic abuse disrupts that foundation with behavior rooted in control. These patterns appear in many relationships and take several shapes. The physical and sexual aspects receive the most attention, yet several other forms of domestic abuse impact people every day. Domestic abuse involves a…
Read MoreWhat Are 7 Forms of Domestic Abuse Besides Physical & Sexual? Part 1
By: Ashlee Stumpf, LPC COVID-19 has caused countless issues for us this year; some directly, some indirectly. One indirect consequence of this virus is the rise of domestic violence. To be clear, domestic violence has been at epidemic levels for years, but with recent stay-at-home orders, job losses, and lack of out of the house…
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