Self-Sabotage, Part III: How Do I Deal With Uncertainty?
By Andrew McNaughton LCSW CADC Part One of this three-part blog on Self-Sabotage described the pattern and characteristics. In Part Two, we took a close look at using the ABCs of REBT to catch and dispute our irrational beliefs with which we cause ourselves anxiety. In Part Three, we will apply this to our second…
Read MoreSelf-Sabotage, Part II: How Do I Overcome It?
By Andrew McNaughton LCSW CADC Part One of this three-part blog on Self-Sabotage described the pattern and characteristics. In Part Two, I will present a rational approach to overcoming this tendency. Let’s go back to the first of our two scenarios. SCENARIO #1 Remember in Scenario #1, I have convinced myself to not ask a…
Read MoreSelf-Sabotage, Part I: Why Do I Do It?
By Andrew McNaughton LCSW CADC Patterns of self-sabotage often leave people feeling frustrated and confused. Success seems within reach, yet something pushes it out of grasp. At Symmetry Counseling, we offer self-sabotage counseling that helps clients recognize these patterns and build healthier responses to discomfort, fear, and uncertainty. Self-sabotage rarely comes from laziness or lack…
Read MoreWhat’s the Difference Between Sleep and Rest?
By: Zana Van Der Smissen Feeling tired is one of the most common things that come up in the therapy space whether or not that means you are physically or emotionally tired, it happens to all of us. So how do we restore and recharge when we feel that way? In this blog, I will…
Read More5 Red Flags To Be Aware of in Your Intimate Relationship
Steven Losardo, LMFT No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who is domineering, manipulative, and cruel. Most of the time, the spouse appears to be alright at first. They may have a few flaws, but their good exceeds their flaws. While you may not be able to see your partner’s true face…
Read MoreHow Do I Model a Healthy Body Image?
Meg Mulroy, LPC We are constantly receiving messages about body image from the media, family, and friends. Sometimes, diet and exercise talk seem inevitable and unavoidable. These messages often become internalized and we unknowingly pass them down to our own children, friends, or even clients. It is important to model a healthy and positive body…
Read MoreBoundaries are Mean… Right?!
Written by Kara Thompson, Licensed Social Worker Boundaries have been quite the hot topic in the mental health and wellness space recently. Maybe you are familiar with Nedra Glover Tawwab, therapist and author of the New York Times bestseller “Set Boundaries, Find Peace.” A prominent voice on social media platforms such as Instagram, Nedra speaks…
Read MoreCan Volunteering Strengthen My Mental Health?
By: Zana Van Der Smissen As human beings, we are always trying to find activities and hobbies that can be helpful to our mental health. We talk about self-care and how we can include it in our daily routine. Whether it’s taking a bath, making ourselves a homemade meal, or even talking to an old…
Read MoreThe Cost and Pain of Loneliness
Steven Topper LCPC In our modern world, we appear to be connected at all times. Our phones, social media, and the rise of Zoom during the pandemic have all led to the ability to constantly interact with other people. At the same time, many of us have struggled with social isolation during the pandemic, resulting…
Read More5 Tips To Be Proactive With Depression
Steven Losardo, LMFT Depression rarely announces itself loudly. It often settles into daily life through low energy, heavy thoughts, and a sense that motivation feels harder to access. Managing depression focuses on practical actions that support emotional health day after day. These actions work best when they fit real life and respect how complex depression…
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